This is really stupid, Sue.

I HATE Paypal and am using it less and less these days.
This would be my reply:
Dear Ms. Paypal Representative:
Thank you for your response, however, I am not satisfied with this response and would like to "speak" with someone who is more familiar with Ebay. A private sale cannot be publicly listed. I would look very foolish if I were to ask a buyer to leave feedback a SECOND time, because it is not possible. I would lose credibility as a seller and it may impact the willingness of the buyer to purchase from me again. Please educate yourself with regards to how feedback is left on Ebay and forward this email to someone who actually knows what they are talking about. Unfortunately, it seems you are unfamiliar with how feedback is left on Ebay.
For the record, I am not opposed to the changes. I am well aware that fraud occurs and your measures are to prevent it. I am, however, opposed to measures that are contradictory. I have received positive feedback. Now, where is my money? Holding funds to protect people is one thing. Holding onto them because your system is flawed, however, is an entirely different thing. If Ebay and Paypal are indeed linked then there should be no issue with releasing the funds.
So, I do request that you not note my complaint. I request you forward it to your supervisor or manager since you seem to lack the knowledge to fully assess the situation.
But I'm a little cranky at the moment!