Im doing a custom order Rebecca kit for a girl and her boyfriend, who are around my age..
Well yesterday I was texting the BF, as he said he wanted to take the doll home to Shay (girlfriend) as a suprise..
So yeah we were texting, and the next thing i know, he is texting me asking me whether he could sleep with me as part of the payment!
I ignored it, and just stopped texting him.. and then today I got more saying, is it a yes or a no.. etc etc.. so i texted back sayin- Im not that kind of person!
and more, text from him (wont put exactly what was said as its inappropriate for the forum..) in the end I said, how about from now on I just deal with Shay, or I refund your £60 (thats all I have been payed so far) and I sell the doll to someone else...I'll leave it for you to decide then!! Nothing was said to this, and then a few mins ago i got another text from him saying "are you gonna be in on friday? Is it ok to bring up some money? Can I see him again?"

I really dont know what to say, quite frankly I dont want him in my house, and I dont want to speak to him. On the other hand, his girlfriend has done nothing wrong, and I know how much she wants this doll.. So i dont just want to say sorry heres your deposit back, Im not doing it.
I dont know whether to tell her what he has been saying, and Im not sure whether its my place..?

I just really dont know what to do, I know I dont want to talk to Stephen, or have anything to do with him.. People like this to me are quite worthless..

Any help would be greatly appreciated, my heads rather muddled right now..

Edited to add: I just sent him a text back saying 'To be honest Stephen, I dont want to have anything more to do with you.'

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omg how awful for you, what a creep. I dont blame you for not wanting to deal with him anymore and no way would i let him in my home. So sorry you have to deal with this. Can you contact the gf and deal with her alone? If not, i would definatley just cancel the whole order.

o hun so sorry for you hugs x x x

I would cancel the whole order and let him explain to his girlfriend why you have had to take this action. Keep the text messages and if you have any bother from him show them to the police. I would not put up with any more of his ignorant filthy nonsense this man needs to know he cannot treat people like this.





Janette

What a creep!!!!! I would contact the gf to tell her that you do not want to deal with her bf, so if she wants the doll, she will have to keep the contact with you - and if that does not work, I would cancel the order!!!!

I am so sorry that you had to go through this, my dear friend!!!!

How awful hun...
Firstly...don't let him into the house if you are on your own...and make sure he stays at the front door!....
Contact the girlfriend...and tell her from now on you will only deal with her alone..
If she wants to know the reason why..tell her you feel uncomfortable dealing with a man...
And anymore problems from him...tell him you still have the text messages and you WILL foward them to his girlfriend and the police...
No one has the right to ask 'that' of you..
Besides the fact he must rate himself something if he thinks 'that kind of payment'
will buy a expensive doll!!!!....
Just tell him it wouldn't even buy a finger!!!!!!
Any problems hun...send him to us girls on here!!!
Or Simon...he will sort him out!
love Annettexx

If you live with your mum, I would suggest you let her deal with him, this young man needs a short sharp shock,

I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU ANNETTE, WHAT A SLEAZY GIT!!!!!!!!!!! WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS!!!!!!!!!! HE NEEDS A SHARP REALITY CHECK AND I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE IT TO HIM!!!!!!!!!

Yes Beccy I also agree with everything Annette said.

Break off all contact with this lunatic!

And be there for your friend when she wakes up to what a creep he is

Linda
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Thank You Ladies..
He contacted me again last night, and was acting as if nothing had happened..
Well firstly he replied to my text saying i dont want anything to do with him by saying 'bit hard, im paying for him'.
So i said well just give the money to Shanie, and I will deal with her..
He wouldnt accept this, and used exuses like "she would want me there".. "i want to see him" (i think he began to feel guilty..)
I said, well give me Shanie's address and I will post the £60 back through her door then.
He replied with please, dont do this, not to her, we need this.
I replied- should have thought of that.
He replied- its not for me, its for Shay

So basically we sorted it out that he will post the money through my door (i wont be in, so thats ok!) and then I will contact Shanie..
I will ask for an address to send the payment receipt to, (that way i'll have her address if anything else goes wrong).
If he contacts me again with any inappropriate content, then im going to simply say, that he either leaves me alone or i cancel the order minus the deposit, as he has already been warned..

Im fed up of people trying to take the p*$$.. i think he thinks because im 'young' i do this just for the fun of it, well he's wrong, i treat this like i would any other job, and at the moment it is my way of life, and is my sole job..
Hopefully it wont come to it, but if it does I will simply return the money minus the deposit, and sell the doll to someone else.


Thanks for your support ladies.. I will let you know if he 'starts' again.. and Anette.. Ill send him to simon if he wants to carry on..

thanks again ladies..

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Whoa...well scary-creepy or what????

Firstly hun-PLEASE BE CAREFUL. ...dont want to worry you-but for someone to "be this upfront on texting (which you must keep all of them)..he is DEF someone to have your guard up with!

Better idea send him to SIMONS address..let him pay there and pick up the doll!! ..Can you imagine his FACE as a burly MAN opens the door!

On a more logical level..do you know any BIG BLOKE that will come to your house to do the money and doll side for you???
this would be the solution so he gets the MESSAGE you are not alone and have Bodyguard in tow too!!!

If you cant cut off the deal..proceed with all caution and do NOT allow him to be anywhere near you at all!

Maybe a confidential word with someone in authority wouldnt go amiss-so they are aware of this CREEP!!

HUGS JACK

sorry to hear of your tex creep, do you have a male family member, brother, uncle who he could pay the doll money to?
Personaly and this is only my opinion, I wouldn't want him to have any of my reborns, he's sick in the head.
Don't think he will last long with his girlfiend, if he's sleeping around and cheating on her.
I would warn him I will tex your girl fiend and let her see your tex to me, that will cool him down, if not get the hose pipe ready when he comes to pay,

What a creep thats for sure!!
if he keeps it up tell him your "boyfriend" will be taking over the texting from now on!!
and sign off as a bloke!

oh yes, and if he comes anywhere near your house make sure you arrange for a bloke to be there!

yes best to only go through Shay now!... what a jerk!!
he's definetly got tickets on himself!!
sorry you have had to put up with such a jerk, like alot of us women iv'e had my fair share of them too!! but never to do with doll transactions.. sheeesh!!

Thanks Jack, Irene and Sarah!!
he came to my house last night- at first he rang me, and rang and rang- i just ignored it, and thought well if its that urgent he can text me..
So he did- saying "could you please answer, its stephen. we have some money to bring up, so can we come up tonight and see how hes doing too?"
Then more ringing, and ringing. In the end i got so fed up that i just ignored him all together- the next thing i know- hes at my door!! but i was on my own.. there was only the study light on so i just peeped round the corner to see when he had gone, he kept knocking for 10-15 minutes, looking through my windows and side door (theres a net curtain there luckily, as i was in the study, where the door leads to!)..
I didnt answer as i didnt want him in my house whilst I was on my own- plus I felt really rough so I didnt look anywhere near presentable, (lol) ..
Eventually he went, and at about half 7, i text back saying sorry i was ill in bed, and only just got his text. Im ill today so not tonight sorry. Then he came to the door again, with Shay and her friend- my dad answered and i heard stephen say 'is beccy in?' my dad said i was ill in bed, so he gave my dad the £20 and went..
it really annoyed me that I had explained I was ill, but he still came back and asked for me..?

Urrrrg men! lol..

thanks for listening to me moan- again!

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You need to tell your dad about him, and let him pay your dad, I would tell him from now on deal with my dad, and tex him not you.
This guy looks like he is going to be a pest to you, and you don't want him hanging around.
hope he goe's away soon.