Helen it's good to be doing it with someone else, but if that isn't possible then rest assured we are here for you.
I have been losing weight as you have probably read. this is what I have found helps
having our main meal in the middle of the day, stops us snacking through the afternoon.
instead of sugar in coffee we have been having a chocolate flavor syrup, just gorgeous.
having our main meal in the middle of the day we then have a small tea in the evening, fruit or apple crumble, yogurt, not all these in one evening lol, this evening we had apple crumble with a chocolate mouse, but we shared one portion between the both of us.
also only put on your plate what you know you can eat comfortably, once your comfortably full, don't eat any more.
we walk a lot to.
going cold turkey with sweets and cakes is a great idea, after a few days you don't desire it as much.
I used to swim three to four times a week and it is great for toning up muscles and helps burn up fat, it is a great all round exercise. so keep at it.