i have just 3lbs to loose to reach my goal weight that will mean i have lost 3 stone since january

admittidly i have lost some of the weight quicker than expected due to having the bowel surgery but i'm hoping if i cntinue to eat healthly then it will stay off & i can loose the remaining 3lbs

i do look in the mirror & i have yet to see the new slim me, to me i still look big, i went shopping with Yvonne (chelonia) last week & bought a dress for my holidays Yvonne made me get a size 12 but whilst i was queing (yvonne had gone looking at something) i quickly swapped the dress for a size 14 as i don't see myself as a size 12 i havent even tried the dress on as i know it will be too big sooooooooooo my question is why do i feel like this & how can i overcome this insecruity????

Wow Selina That is fantastic. I think your holiday will do you the world of good. Is it a beach holiday? Get ya self a nice tan and a sexy cozy and go and strut your stuff lady! Well done on the amazing weight loss.

My turn!

Oh you cow! A 14 will be far too big! Good excuse for us to go shopping again though when we take it back to change it for a 12!

You could overcome your insecurty by just trying on the 12 like I suggested :lol:Well done on loosing so much weight hun you look amazing

Well done Selina, that's a fantastic achievement.

Well done Selina,i am soo proud of you.This is awesome,you'll have those 3 pounds off in no time.
It helps if you go to shops and try on plenty of outfits,it will give you a boost and will help overcome your insecurities.
A makeover perhaps a new hair do or new lippy can all help give you a boost and bring out the new you.

Ya I agree, go shopping again and try on the size 12, this should help you realize you really are a size 12. You may feel insecure because unlike the rest of us who have a battle every day, you lost yours through bad health. So you might not think you have really lost it, although you mentally know you have. Does this make any sense. Go out get a new hair do, try on loads of 12 and have fun, and dare your self to buy and WEAR something sexy at home just for you and hubby, see if he notices. If he doesn't, Bonk him on the head.

Well Done Selina. You looked really good when i seen you at the show. Well Done - I lost 12 lb and put it right back on - a year on i am back where i started from - so I am going to get back on track i want to be slim for christmas - summer is toooo close LOL

well done you Selina!!!
You have a good friend in Iyvonne and I think she will definately help you in overcoming your insecuritys!

GOOD ON YA GIRL!!

well done Selina and i am sure you will lose that 3lb don`t forget to treat yourself